Please be kind, I just don’t know what to think, I’ve found out today that my husband has had an affair, that went on whilst we were trying for a baby and lasted throughout the pregnancy, we have been together 14 years, married 4, we’ve had our ups and downs but we are mostly happy, we we’re beyond happy throughout the pregnancy, this has absolutely knocked me for six, my parents got divorced when I was a baby and I really don’t want my little girl to have to go through the same, it probably sounds ridiculous but I just want it to all go away and to have never found out. He is full of regret and wants to make things work but can a marriage survive this.