For the ladies who have been on PF and ttc for a while...

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by itisbabytime, Dec 14, 2011.

  1. itisbabytime

    itisbabytime Well-Known Member

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    do you feel sad when you see more and more fab ladies get their BFPs and move on to tri1? I've been in ttc since July and since then almost all the ladies who joined up around then and i got to know started ttc about the same time are now in tri 1 or tri2. Dont get me wrong im not angry or think they dont deserve it - im soooooo please for them. I'm just jealous i suppose. Please tell me you feel the same??

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  2. mrs v

    mrs v Well-Known Member

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    It's very natural hun, I'm sure we all feel the same, why is it not me...but our times will come and it'll be soooo special because we have waited sooo long. Big hugs xx
     
  3. vixxie77

    vixxie77 Well-Known Member

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    They're really lucky to have moved on that fast, it took us 9 months to conceive Millie, our first baby, now trying for our second, really hope it doesn't take as long this time :eh: but who knows may even take longer!

    Really hope you get your bfp soon hun :dust: x x
     
  4. babyg

    babyg Well-Known Member

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    I've been ttc since july too hun, we will get out bfp soon we just need to stay positive :) the other girls who have got their have been extra lucky.
     
  5. Bellarina

    Bellarina Well-Known Member

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    I joined beginning of august hun and im still here with you :) lets just keep positive that we go to tri 1 soon too :) il do you a deal, we'll end up in there together in new yr yeh? (*puts out hand to shake on it*)

    xxx
     
  6. Tinkerbell3

    Tinkerbell3 Well-Known Member

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    I know how you feel, ive been here since last December so i think almost everyone i started talking to has their bfp or even their baby now.
    Hopefully it won't be long until its our time x


     
  7. timtam78

    timtam78 Well-Known Member

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    Hey I've been trying since beginning of August, only joined PF in Oct though but I'm still here and doesn't look like I'll be moving for a while xxx
     
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  8. anlovey

    anlovey Active Member

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    I understand how you feel... I feel sad because I have not any good news during my ttc. My friends says no worry about that because my baby is not ready to come. hun... hugs for feeling the same.
     
  9. itisbabytime

    itisbabytime Well-Known Member

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    thanks ladies, 2012 babies here we come!!!!
     
  10. Poppy1987

    Poppy1987 Well-Known Member

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    I've been hear since may so I know how your feeling x
     
  11. Tanya4beauty

    Tanya4beauty Well-Known Member

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    Hi hunny I started ttc in jan and most of the girls I joined with had moved on too. I know exactly how you feel but I'm proof that you will get there! Good luck girlies. Spreading the :dust: to you xx
     
  12. marshma

    marshma Well-Known Member

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    hey hun, i have been trying since July too, i am happy for all the girls to get their bfps and jealous too lol
    I think i will be on the ttc part for a while as my body seems to be doing its own thing
     
  13. anlovey

    anlovey Active Member

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    absolutely correct, ladies. God never forget us. What we should do now is keeping good feeling and wecome our baby. I think 2012 will never disappoint us. And happy new year, merry christmas
     
  14. Daisy2011

    Daisy2011 Well-Known Member

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    Its very hard, becuase youare delighted that lovely ladies have a dream come true and want only the best and easiest time for them , but it only acts to underline the crushed hopes and dreams that you have been through.
    Its hard to feel left behind when they are moving forward into exciting times and a new life in all sences of the word.

    All you can do is keep trying through the tears and heartache and snot.
    The great thing is that there are lovely ladies on this forum who are always there with a hug and word of comfort.

    Heres to you all being knocked up by feb!
    xx Daisy
     
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  15. CARNAT22

    CARNAT22 Well-Known Member

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    I've been over to Tri 1 myself - all the lovely ladies I met there are now moving on to Tri 2 whilst I am back here.

    I am of course chuffed to bits everytime someone gets their BFP, and I wouldn't wish what I have been through on anyone but yes sometimes it is hard.

    xxxxxxxxx
     
  16. KMG

    KMG Well-Known Member

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    Hi,

    I know how you feel.

    good luck to us all for our bfp's in 2012

    xx
     
  17. ab11

    ab11 Well-Known Member

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    we've been trying for ove 3years, think i musta joined about the same time as u and im still here.
    stay positive its CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     

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