Hope no one is offended by my question, but I wondered if anyone else is unplanned pregnant with their first, and how they're feeling about things? I'm still in shock about it, and generally feel good and calm but now and again I feel really overwhelmed. I guess this is normal whether is was planned or not though. Sometimes I feel daunted by the prospect of 18 years of someone depending on me. I'm someone that loves travel and adventure and my own company, and I've always been a bit of a commitment phobe.