I'm finding out with the Harmony test at 10 weeks lol. If I'm honest I'm really desperate for a girl this time so it will give me lots of time to get over it and get excited if it's a boy. Which I'm sure it is lol. I want the first time I hold him to be full of love not disappointment
Which sounds really awful I know :-/ i would never be disappointed with my baby I'd just need to accept it and give up on the pink dream. .. but I'm sure by the time baby arrives I will be fine with it. We found out with our second for the same reason and it worked well, he was a boy but I had known that since 16 weeks so there was no dreaming of pink and being shocked when a little willy popped out haha, I had totally accepted it by then x
My first was a surprise and that was really lovely too, I would like another surprise but I know I'm better off preparing myself xx