Finally TTC again :-)

[scandicmum85]

Yay! We are finally trying to concieve again after 5 months... (long story..) But so happy and I feel so relaxed this time, I am not even using OPK tests etc and dont have to high hopes, so looking forward to the next months and to just see where it goes, not going to stress this time or spend a fortune on pregnancy tests etc.

Only problem I have is that its difficult for my man sometimes, I dont know if it could do with his age but he said he been like that last 10 years, its hard for him to come sometimes but sometimes its not a problem at all. And his apetite isnt as big as mine aswell. I don´t talk about ovultion or we dont really talk about "now its the right time to do it" stuff.. As last time we TTC he struggled really and it wasnt very good at all. Just wanted to tell you girls in here and looking forward to spend more time back here again. And hope for lots of advices !

xx

( P.s my english isnt great as I just came to England)

 

[Nurse 26]

Hey, Welcome back

Good luuck!

xx

 

[Mummy2Adam]

Hello
Welcome back and goodluck.

x x

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[Kezzamunster]

Welcome back & good luck on your TTC journey

xxxx

 

[LouiseB]

Hiya Yvonne

How are you finding York?

Glad your back to ttc'in

 

[SunnyGirl]

Hello!! Welcome back and yay you're TTC again )
Has your man seen the GP for physical/emotional reasons behind the problem? Xxx

 

[scandicmum85]

Thank you girls!!

Louise I love York ( live a little outside York) and its fantastic here!! How are you?

No I don´t know if I should suggest that to my man to go to see GP? We havent talked much about it but it seems like he s trying very hard and sometimes i think it must be difficult for him and i dont want to mention the "problem" too much as it maybe could make it worse ?

Im trying to understand what it could be, he is stressed, work alot and is tired alot when it comes to the point we go to bed.. x

 

[xshauna_bazx]

Hi and welcome back xxx

 

[LouiseB]

Louise I love York ( live a little outside York) and its fantastic here!! How are you?

I'm great thanks Just waiting for time tick by.

It does sound psychological with your hubby and i don't really know what to suggest except keeping it causal.

That said, i'm sure as soon as sex is mentioned your hubby might think "must make a baby" even if you are keeping it as casual as possible.

Stress relief might be a good idea.

Some people like massages and things like that and some people like to vent in a sport or activity or something - you can do either of these things together

 

[Olive]

Welcome back Scandicmum x

 

[Applecider]

hi!!!!!!!!!

Does ur OH drink by any chance? Alchohol massive factor in this problem, x

 

[scandicmum85]

Yes, he drinks at weekends etc, wondering if alcohol can affect the quality of sperm too ? I think I have heard that... x

 

[positivity :)]

hi scandicmum welcome back! my OH drinks on weekends and whenever he is off work, only a few in the evening but his sex drive always dissapears when that happens!! xx

 

[lrb]

Hiya! And welcome back Good luck with TTC! xxx

 

[scandicmum85]

thank you and good luck to rest of you too, hope january/february will be good months for us

 

[maybe baby]

Hello Hun!

Welcome back!

Hope you are enjoying your new life in the UK and I wish you lot's of luck TTC.

xx