glittergirl
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Hi everyone
I just needed to write a few words and hopefully get some advice from you.
I lost our baby on New Years Eve in hospital. Both OH and i are devastated but are completely there for each other.
I was 11 weeks and can't tell you how excited we both were to be looking forward to being a mammy and daddy. It took us a year to get our good news and now its been snatched away from us
What i would like is some on advice is ttc again. I had a d & c on 31.12.07 and i have had only very slight bleeding a few days afterwards. The bleeding has just about stopped now (get the odd tiny bit of brown spotting). I went to my docs back home last Thurs and she said as long as we were emotionally ready then there was no reason why we couldn't try straight away. I was really relieved to hear this as i can't bear the thought of waiting. After talking this through with OH he feels exactly the same.
Anybody else start trying almost immediately?
Did you wait till you get your 1st period?
Also how long does it take for your opk's and hpt's to stop showing a really strong positive? I've done 2 of each a couple of days apart and they both still give a positive.
Sorry if i've rambled, i just needed to put my thoughts down on here as i get nowhere when they are just flying around in my head.
Thanks
I just needed to write a few words and hopefully get some advice from you.
I lost our baby on New Years Eve in hospital. Both OH and i are devastated but are completely there for each other.
I was 11 weeks and can't tell you how excited we both were to be looking forward to being a mammy and daddy. It took us a year to get our good news and now its been snatched away from us
What i would like is some on advice is ttc again. I had a d & c on 31.12.07 and i have had only very slight bleeding a few days afterwards. The bleeding has just about stopped now (get the odd tiny bit of brown spotting). I went to my docs back home last Thurs and she said as long as we were emotionally ready then there was no reason why we couldn't try straight away. I was really relieved to hear this as i can't bear the thought of waiting. After talking this through with OH he feels exactly the same.
Anybody else start trying almost immediately?
Did you wait till you get your 1st period?
Also how long does it take for your opk's and hpt's to stop showing a really strong positive? I've done 2 of each a couple of days apart and they both still give a positive.
Sorry if i've rambled, i just needed to put my thoughts down on here as i get nowhere when they are just flying around in my head.
Thanks