I'm starting to feel very hopeful and positive about this ttc lark. Although we have been ntnp for the last 5/6 years and nothing ever happened I genuinely think it was just a case of not dtd on the right day. We could sometimes go a month with out dtd and it usually did happen on a weekend, after a few drinks etc. Neither of us have a very high sex drive. However now that we have actively decided to ttc I started using opks last month. I ovulated on cd14 or 15, very text book stuff. I did get caught, and although it ended in a chemical, we have just taken from it that at least it means we can actually get caught. I had no idea if my cycles were regular or not having never tracked them atall before last month. Last day my cycle was bang on28 days and today on cd13 I have had a very near positive opk, I think this evening or tomorrow wil be positive meaning I will probably ovulate cd14/15 again. Being 37 I think the time between my lh surge and ovulation are quite short. I'm feeling very hopeful today that my cycles are textbook regular and I'm also hoping that that will make it very easy for me to track my cycles giving us the best chance of a bfp again some time. Here's hoping. Update: just had my positive opk, at the same time on the same cycle day as last month.