Really dont want to moan to u lovely ladies but dont know who else to moan too !!! A few of u know my hubby is a copper so works shifts which leaves me on my own with the kids quite a bit. I know this isnt hugely different to many others situations but some days I have no help what so ever. So hubby was working 5pm till 3am yesterday (started at 5) so I did the school/nursery run in am, housework and sorted out for my plumber friend to come and fix the pilot light as it wouldnt stay on so no heating or hotwater ( i got up 5 times in the night to relight it !!! so knackered). I made lunch and washed up, hubby did go to pick Ethan up from school but I still had to go get Kian from nursery and get back for plumber at 5. Got back just in time put the kids dinner on while plumber there it was very nearly the end of my boiler ! so had a stressful hr while he was trying to see if he could save it !!! Once he had gone got boys ready for bed Ethan saying he had tummy ache (think he was constripated) but also very tired from a busy week at school. boys went up and Rhea starts screaming !!!!! she is over tired cant get her to settle so think i'll bring her last bottle forward. she takes an oz in 15 mins !!! she then nods off so I dream feed her while listen to ethan whimpering upstairs cos of his tummy. Finally get rhea sorted and in bed, she screams again form 15 mins (trying to get her to self settle) its now 9.15 and i havent eaten ! make myself a pastan sauce (slimming world friendly) when Ethan starts up again. Manage to get him to go to the loo which he does and seem bit better, so go back down to try and eat !! He starts up again and gets himself all upset. sat him on the loo passes lots of wind but is so worked up he is sick all in his onsie and the floor and me !!!!! but says I feel better now !! get everything cleaned up and go finish my dinner its 10pm. Go to bed to chill out and read for 10 mins before i go to sleep get into bed after 5 mins i realise my shoulder is wet the cat has done a wee on the bed !!!!! total about to lose it !! clean that all up including turning mattress and spraying whole thing of frebrezze !!!! kids have me up couple of times so does hubby when he comes home and burbs kebab fumes in my face while he is asleep !!!! so today up with kids done 3 loads of washing and ironing. hubby gets up says this house needs a clean !!! again i do all the washing up. he did make me a coffee. drag him along to the kids party where he eats lunch they wont serve a salad in the room cos i would need cutlery !!! so agin i go hungry ! At least kids have eaten! And off he has gone to work again till 3am ! so I have the night time routine to myself again and madam has been a pain with her last bottle ! sorry for the moan just needed to get it out ! having snuggles on sofa at the min think the boys r only doing it cos they want their programmes on !!