Feel bad for not worrying any more

BabyBrain

Well-Known Member
Joined
Sep 4, 2011
Messages
8,103
Reaction score
0
So I've got this far....on Thursday I get my 12 week scan.
Thing is I've stopped worrying about it. It's hard to explain, I am still worrying but then I'm not. The panic feeling of bleeding is still there but I think it's because there's nothing I can do if something has gone wrong is kind of making me feel a bit "que serra serra".
I don't think there is anything wrong, I feel fine with no pains and stuff and maybe now I have seen my mw I feel like I am not being left to it on my own. Maybe I just "know" everything is ok. I dunno.....it's all so confusing. Tomorrow I will probably wake up completely panicking but today I feel great.
Hope you know what I mean cos personally I have no idea :wall2: xxxxxxxxxx
 
I am glad ur feeling less stressed out!that's good for uand good for baba!!! Pass some of that no worry ontome though will u??? Share!!!xx
 
Sending chilled vibes to everyone lol xxxxxxxxxxx
 
Hi hun, I have got my scan on thursday too :) I feel exactly the same as you, a lot more relaxed about the whole thing now! It's funny I thought I would be a lot more stressed the closer it got, but I feel like everything is fine and now I am just excited about seeing my little bean on thursday! What time is yours? Mine is at 2.20pm xxx
 
Mines at 3.20. Don't get me wrong I will probably be a dribbling wreck when Thursday comes (hope they don't check my bp rofl) xxxxxxxxxx
 
Lol!! Everything is going to be fine hun!! Good luck for thursday - it has come round so quick! I will prob be a mess on thursday too - but once I know everything is ok, I'll be able to relax! xxx
 
I'm feeling a bit like that - have my scan in 10 days. Part of me was worried that I started to emotionally detach in case it was bad news. There is absolutely no reason for it to be - I've had no bleeding or any indication anything is wrong, but you just never know. Today I feel very chilled though - which is good for baby so I'm happy!!!
 
its a good thing your not worrying babybrain, good luck for thursday girlies :) xx
 
I feel bit like this too. It's like I have relaxed a little. I do have my holiday to distract me a bit I guess. I do have this little niggle in the back of my mind about what the hell I am going to do if it is bad news with my holiday etc but I try to ignore it.

Roll on Thursday!
 
I'm the same TOR, am wondering what the heck to do if they say to go back for another scan.....hopefully could get it done on holiday in York if need be. Maybe we really do just know that everything is fine....we've had scans already with good results (still can't believe how well formed Podge was tbh, was expecting more of a blob not hands face and feet rofl) xxxxxxx
 
I keep telling myself that all of the hard work of growing to 12 weeks was almost done and Id imagine it is quite rare to have it go bad after almost 11 weeks when it has arms/legs etc.

I dont know how true this is but it gives me comfort all the same. It's so easy to be irrational when pregnant!

P.s my scan is also at 3.20!
 
Coool....I'll be thinking of you, will help take my mind off it lol xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

They've told me to have an empty bladder so am wondering if I'll have another internal scan. Not very dignified but if that's the best then so be it
 
To be honest ladies iv stopped worrying. Iv woke up today like 'well im 11 weeks today, every week is a chance things are getting better' and my baby is growing stronger. I feel shit, sick, shakey, never know what i fancy to eat. smells making me feel sick. All rolled into one, so i know that somethings growing inside :) Have a lovely weekend every one xx
 
There has just been lost of sad news on here lately which makes people worry more than normal, it always goes in batches too.

I was a worryer , and no sense in it looking back, what will be , will be and you can't beat the positive effects on you both of a postive attitude , so enjoy !

Good luck for all your scans ladies
 
I have bouts of being sick with worry and then feeling excited about my scan on friday. Since I got the doppler I do feel better about things. The mw told me theres no way I could hear the babies hb with one this early so felt a little deflated but when I listened again the other day I could hear mine going in a different time to babes so I was like ha told you so. I know that I shall be a wreck come friday but our scan is 9:30 so haven't got all day to worry about it.
 
Good luck everyone, try not to be stressed...I'm sure everything will be just fine! Hugs :hugs: x
 
Good luck babybrain, and keep your positivity up! It's so brilliant to see! Other than this urine infection I feel the same! What will be will be! End! I hope that we are all ok though. I have mine on Wednesday morning! Xxxx
 
Good luck babybrain, and keep your positivity up! It's so brilliant to see! Other than this urine infection I feel the same! What will be will be! End! I hope that we are all ok though. I have mine on Wednesday morning! Xxxx

Good luck to you for wednesday hun xxxxxxxxxx
 

Users who are viewing this thread

Members online

No members online now.

Latest posts

Forum statistics

Threads
473,583
Messages
4,654,682
Members
110,060
Latest member
shadenahill
Back
Top