Punklor182
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Hi we are at the moment feeding every 3 hrs give or take one hr but I find my self getting angry we already have another son who is 4 and I know im on maternity to look after them but I need to know what others have done between the two of you as I find im doing every feed and only getting 4 hrs sleep if im lucky but I find myself in argument with my partner all the time because im tired and his responce only adds fuel to the fire when he says its because he works I plan to go back to my work after maternity but wish he would just help when he is home from work in a month I have done all feeds bar 5 which he still wake me to change baby's nappy I understand he works but his job is very easy I know because I use to work there too but he seems to think that because I have all day off im the only one that has to do it but its killing me I feel like he thinks Ido nothing all day as he comes home and thinks he is helping when he does what he has always done his life has not change since the baby came home (sorry to get to the point)
I want to know how much responsability each of you shared while you were on maternity leave (very sorry if you are a single mum I know how though it is but it makes the up bringing more rewarding im sure) please help as im finding it hard to stop aruguing I know its only because im tired!! Sorry about the lenght
I want to know how much responsability each of you shared while you were on maternity leave (very sorry if you are a single mum I know how though it is but it makes the up bringing more rewarding im sure) please help as im finding it hard to stop aruguing I know its only because im tired!! Sorry about the lenght