Fed up!

Discussion in 'Health, Beauty & Dieting' started by xrachx, Jan 19, 2008.

  1. xrachx

    xrachx Well-Known Member

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    I am so fed up, i cant seem to lose weight! i was doing the slimming world plan and lost 8lb then christmas came and i put on altogether 4lb back on, i started cutting down again last week and lost 2lb but i cant stop weighing myself and its doing my head in, my oh came home from work and i said to him, answer me honestly, do you think i am fat? and he said no but i weigh 12 stone 1 and i am 5'5 in height, he said that i was too hard on myself and i only had a baby 3 months ago but i know if my mind is set like this i am going to go the drastic way and i really dont want to, i lost alot of weight taking appetite suppresants but they make me feel like shit and when i start eating properly again it just comes back on twice as quick, i am just soo fed up!
    I keep thinking about the summer and what i am going to look like if i keep on putting on the weight, its not worth thinking about! i am going to be a big fat minger AGAIN!
     
  2. lauramumof2

    lauramumof2 Well-Known Member

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    take it easy and relax. Firstly, you arent a fat minger.
    Your dh is right, you did only have a baby a few months agobut I understand your desire to lose weight and I have unsuccessfully went down the road of appetite surpressants.

    Excersise works quite well for me but I have to put a lot of hours in at the gym to acheive anything worth while.

    Cheese is also my downfall. If I could cut that out I would drop weight quicker.

    Good luck,
     
  3. trixipaws

    trixipaws Well-Known Member

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    im sorry i dont kno a lot about weight loss but i hope u feel better about urself soon :hug:
    are u not doing the classes anymore? i read somewhere that dieters are more successful if they in a club such as slimming world or weight watchers etc. good luck!
     
  4. Nic'n'Keeley

    Nic'n'Keeley Well-Known Member

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    Remember it took 9months to put on so it can take 9months to lose...
    You baby is still quite young :)
     
  5. rach

    rach Well-Known Member

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    its all been said already hun just wanted to send you a hug and tell you stop being so hard on yourself :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: xxx
     
  6. neeko_1

    neeko_1 Well-Known Member

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    it's true don't be so hard on your self.

    it has only been 3 months and you still have to take time. i was just like you rushing getting up set.

    think of it like this, the reason why you put on weight is because you have a beautiful baby boy. it's not like you just sat their eating cakes

    renee is 7 months now and now i'm just staring to lose the weight.

    :hug:
     

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