is anyone else getting fed up of 'advice'? anyone who has had a baby seems to just want to tell me how i feel, how i will feel and what i should and shouldnt do. i am getting really fed up of it! reading your posts, its clear that there are a range of feelings and emotions with each pregnancy. why dont people realise this and that one womans experience of pregnancy isnt the same as another womans? i had a very sore back two weeks ago. when i told my mother in law (who is in another country btw) she immediatley said; "thats because he is lying on your nerves', it wasnt actually, it was becuase I have a weak back as i slipped a disc last year. last night my sister in law started telling me how i wont get much sleep soon...actually, im sleeping pretty well as i have sussed out where i need to put pillows etc. i find it pretty insulting when people try to tell me how i feel and how i am going to feel - i do have a mind of my own!!!