geordie1892
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Hi everyone. A bit daunting for me all this but I'm sure someone could shed some light on my problem.
We're 11 weeks pregnant. My first her second.
In my eyes we were the best couple in the world. Happy constantly, laughing, we're so interconnected it's unreal. She's my best friend on top of all that but that's what makes this so hard.
We used to not be able to get enough of each other and Nearly every night we'd have sex and it was always unreal!
Recently though it's become a bit of an issue. She goes nowhere near me and she started joking that I was moody because I "wasn't getting any".
A couple of weeks went by and we argued. That same comment was brought up and I told her I was actually quite insulted by that.
A few days went by and she tried it on after she had a shower. All I said was "not quite yet".
She immediately took offence by that. I explained that I said I didn't want to because I didn't want it to happen just to keep me happy, all was OK after that and we dropped it.
So we did have sex 2 weeks ago and she had a little blood. We got a scan and all was ok and it was explained it was more than likely blood vessels.
She's a big Google fan and is constantly on seeing what things could be.
So she knows that it's highly unlikely that sex can harm the baby.
We had a row yesterday because I tried it on the night before and she said she was going to sleep. as I tried to poor my heart out and tell her that i feel we're drifting away. She said the lack of sex and affection is down to her being tired and my moods. We sorted things out, got a lot of things off our chest and announced our undying love etc etc.
Now tonight we were in bed for two hours and absolutely nothing happened again. She puts it down to being tired and I know I can't understand what this does to a woman but she is asleep by 9 every night and up at 7am maybe 8. We had two hours tonight but nothing was instigated.
Everything I say to her her answer is "I'm pregnant". I just feel lost, alone and even like a sex pest now. I've told her it's not about the sex it's the closeness, I miss her so much and just want a little bit of her back.
Any help would be great and don't hesitate to ask me something that might shine a light on this.
We're 11 weeks pregnant. My first her second.
In my eyes we were the best couple in the world. Happy constantly, laughing, we're so interconnected it's unreal. She's my best friend on top of all that but that's what makes this so hard.
We used to not be able to get enough of each other and Nearly every night we'd have sex and it was always unreal!
Recently though it's become a bit of an issue. She goes nowhere near me and she started joking that I was moody because I "wasn't getting any".
A couple of weeks went by and we argued. That same comment was brought up and I told her I was actually quite insulted by that.
A few days went by and she tried it on after she had a shower. All I said was "not quite yet".
She immediately took offence by that. I explained that I said I didn't want to because I didn't want it to happen just to keep me happy, all was OK after that and we dropped it.
So we did have sex 2 weeks ago and she had a little blood. We got a scan and all was ok and it was explained it was more than likely blood vessels.
She's a big Google fan and is constantly on seeing what things could be.
So she knows that it's highly unlikely that sex can harm the baby.
We had a row yesterday because I tried it on the night before and she said she was going to sleep. as I tried to poor my heart out and tell her that i feel we're drifting away. She said the lack of sex and affection is down to her being tired and my moods. We sorted things out, got a lot of things off our chest and announced our undying love etc etc.
Now tonight we were in bed for two hours and absolutely nothing happened again. She puts it down to being tired and I know I can't understand what this does to a woman but she is asleep by 9 every night and up at 7am maybe 8. We had two hours tonight but nothing was instigated.
Everything I say to her her answer is "I'm pregnant". I just feel lost, alone and even like a sex pest now. I've told her it's not about the sex it's the closeness, I miss her so much and just want a little bit of her back.
Any help would be great and don't hesitate to ask me something that might shine a light on this.