Hi, My mother and my older sister are planning to come up to see Jack, they are asking about next weekend. For normal families that would be great, but not mine. For those of you that read my other thread in the 3rd trimester you will have an idea about what I mean!!! Basically, my mum does my head in, she is very selfish, we aren't very close and when she stayed with us last time, when I was due, I got very stressed out. My sister, I have not seen for a while as there was a massive family fall out (younger sister slept with my, then, partner but it was some how my fault.) And when I fell pregnant both of them never congratulated me and were very opinionated about it. They want to stay with us but I know that both of them together will be a nightmare. Originally It was supposed to be my mum and her friend staying, but in a B&B, and my sister was coming up seperately which was ideal. Now they are planning to come up together which means staying here. It kind of annoys me that they just assumed it would be ok and planned it between them anyway. What do I do? Do I say it would be too much and possibly cause an argument or do I just let them come up anyway? I haven't even mentioned this to my partner yet as my mum has only just phoned. I know he wont be too happy as my mum annoys the hell out of him too! Please help!!!