i just had an argument with my mum because she wants me to climb up the ladders and lift boxes into the loft and some back down for her. i said, i didnt really think i should be doing that and she started on about when she was pregnant she had to do all sorts of things and they never got told not to do things like lifting and stretching back then. i said well they do now so im not doing it, and then my brother chipped in saying if im so obsessed about being careful i shouldnt leave the house incase i get run over by a bus. i dunno why he couldnt get up the bleeding ladders and lift the boxes. next year when i come home for christmas, im coming down the day before and going the day after. im p*ssed off with being here already and its not even christmas yet. moan over.