Everyone's essential list is different.
Mine has completely diminished from first time round, because I wasted far too much money.
This time I will be buying everything new in again because I did it all for Jackson so wouldn't want to get everything 2nd hand for a second baby, although I am partial to a few bargains.
This time we are going with 3 in 1 travel system inc car seat, snuzpod, cot, STRUVA set from Ikea as my LO's will be room sharing, we have a mammas and pappas bath already from first time, bouncer, matt, changing station (which is part of furniture but I found I really missed having this first time), sterilizer, bottles, we have a feeding pillow already, clothes, bedding, and an abundance of bibs/burpees/vests because these you cannot get enough of. We have a moses aswell, but thats in the loft and I think the Snuz will do the job, but it is always an option. As for everything else like high chair etc we will buy when in because I rushed around last time for it to wait in the nursery to be used.
Girls are right, stick to gumtree and facebook pages for a bargain.
What I did last time and will do again this time is add in a pack of nappies to each weekly shop, adding double the amount when a sale is on. Same with lotions, creams etc. We didn't need to buy anything for months on end.
Also, remember and register your baby when its born at the minor ailment scheme with your pharmacy as you get free sudocrem, calpol etc needed.
As for pants etc I got all my disposables from Primark, I did not like the idea of paper pants. Only soft for this booty
Also, Id recommend however many pairs of PJ bottoms your taking to hospital, triple it! I was only in a day and went through quite a bit.
Arnica oil for after birth in your bath and TCP will get you back ship shape and shiny, fixing any cuts
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