Emergency scan this morning and Its all over for me

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  1. sunshine_gal

    sunshine_gal Well-Known Member

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    Hi Ladies...

    I started to spot browny/pinky late on wed and then when i woke yesterday it was more red, only when i wiped mind, through the day it got slightly heavier but nothing too bad, i called my gp who got me an early scan this morning.
    When i got into the scan room they done a normal belly scan and found it a bit hard to see then they done an internal scan which showed that my baby died about a week ago, i was offered two options, one to let nature take its course but that may take a few weeks and i might even end up having a mini labour or the other option was to have a d/c to remove it all in one go, i have taken that option as i dont fancy having all the pain or maybe even seeing the little one pass which they said was very possible..
    I really didn't think it would hit me this hard, i cant fight back the tears, it took me a year to get this far and now its been taken away from me....

    Just thought i'd let you all know.. I would have been 10 weeks on tuesday..x.. :cry: :cry:
     
  2. angiemum2b

    angiemum2b Well-Known Member

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    i'm so sorry hunni x :hug: :hug:
     
  3. mandspice

    mandspice Well-Known Member

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    I'm so so sorry, I know what you're going through and it's horrible :hug: Pm me if you want to talk xx I think you've made the right choice having the D&C, it will help to "finalise" things for want of a better word...

    Thinking of you :hug:
     
  4. babydust

    babydust Well-Known Member

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    :hug: :hug: i am so sorry this has happened :cry:
    :hug: :hug: :hug: i think you have made the right decision of having a d&c :hug:
     
  5. xJodieLoux

    xJodieLoux Well-Known Member

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    So sorry hun :hug:
     
  6. Moofa

    Moofa Well-Known Member

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    So sorry :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  7. MissSara

    MissSara Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry for your loss lovey xxx
     
  8. sarah113

    sarah113 Well-Known Member

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    So sorry hun :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  9. mrs_metal

    mrs_metal Well-Known Member

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    So so sorry :hug: :hug:
     
  10. muppetmummy

    muppetmummy Well-Known Member

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    I'm sorry you've had to go through this :hug: :hug:
     
  11. Babylicious

    Babylicious Well-Known Member

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    reallyoldmum Well-Known Member

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    I'm really sorry :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  13. sarafet

    sarafet Well-Known Member

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    im so sorry sweetie :cry:

    hope you're coping, take care of yourself :hug:

    xxxx
     
  14. Flick

    Flick Well-Known Member

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    So sorry for your loss hun, stay strong and remember you're not alone :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  15. NIE

    NIE Well-Known Member

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    Sorry for your loss.

    Take care. xxx
     
  16. Minime

    Minime Well-Known Member

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    :hug: sorry to hear this hun
     
  17. lozzi

    lozzi Well-Known Member

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    so sorry hun :hug:
     
  18. jenna

    jenna Well-Known Member

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    so sorry hun :hug:
     
  19. bowmanzoo

    bowmanzoo Well-Known Member

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    so sorry hun

    :cry:
     
  20. Sydneysmum

    Sydneysmum Well-Known Member

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    :hug: I'm so sorry for your loss. You're not alone - and it's not all over for you, there is a future. Have hope, time heals everything x
     

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