Hi there Grateful if one of you experienced ladies can put my mind at rest (or not - it's honesty I need here) I am in the very early stages of pregnancy, and have just tested positive after missing my period. All good - despite this not being planned it has proven a good thing and I'm really excited while knowing it's still at a very critical stage and I may miscarry. However, I'm also very scared about what I did before I found out I was pregnant. I must have conceived late November, and since then it's -well- been Christmas. In the run up to Christmas I drank a LOT more than I would usually drink (although not as much as I have some festive seasons due to feeling sick - I did have a few properly drunk, falling over nights with work parties) and I have also eaten some of the soft cheeses you are not supposed to eat whil pregnant, including the blue stuff. I am now worried sick. I've done a bit of research on the cheese thing, and can't find much agreement on how bad this is. One thing I have heard is that as long as I haven't been unwell myself (I have been fine) then the baby will be fine. Others say it could cause irreversible brain damage either way the booze thing is also obviously a worry. Please...I had no idea this was going to happen, and really feel awful about it. Can anyone share any experiences?