Feeling low. This is cycle 13 and today I have that heavy AF feeling in my tummy. I also started spotting a little after intercourse last night. Why aren't I pregnant yet!!! I came off Cilest in October 2014 and my cycles are regular but I've been having some mid cycle bleeding a week before AF. I saw a Consultant and was told this is was hormonal and nothing to worry about. Bloods, ultrasounds and sexual screenings are all clear and we are having regular sex throughout the month. The Consultant said our chances off natural conception are high and to consider if we really want the stress of a fertility referral. I'm going to speak to OH tonight about getting a semen analysis although he already has 2 kids from a past relationship. When this is done I'm not sure there's much else we can do without referral. It's really making me depressed. All of my friends seem to get pregnant just by looking at their others halfs and people that started trying a lot later than us are already half way through their pregnancies. Anyone out there in the same boat or been in a similar position? I really didn't want to have to go down the referral route but feel it's our only option right now. Thanks.