DTD?

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  1. TwinklinPixi3

    TwinklinPixi3 Well-Known Member

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    Ok, quite a personal question I know - but regardless of whether you're ovulating, how often are you DTD when TTC? Every other day, every day, once or twice a week?
     
  2. minniemaker

    minniemaker Well-Known Member

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    It depends on the weather for us ha! the OH hates being hot , so recently in the heatwave, not alot! this is our first month of ttc since trying 5 yr ago, but aiming for atleast every other day..... when not OV just the norm its prob once/twice a week fitted in around life/work/step kids etc, sometimes can go a couple of weeks and I've not even noticed we havent until he drops a subtle hint whoops!!

    How people do it a few times a day I'll never know... :whistle:
     
  3. FBTTN8079

    FBTTN8079 Well-Known Member

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    We love bding so my oh never knows when I've had a positive opk or whether the timings right as he really feels the pressure but generally we are usually a good few times a week depending on shifts etc x


    BabyDust *****

     
  4. Vickilou25

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    As much as possible ;-) depending on tiredness etc x
     
  5. TwinklinPixi3

    TwinklinPixi3 Well-Known Member

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    Thanks ladies :) I think I need to up the anti :) lol
     
  6. minniemaker

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    I've just done an anne summers order to spice up the month haha!
     
  7. Sugarplump

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    We dtd at least every other night. Although like minniemaker said the hot weather has put a little bit of a stop to that as its just been too damn warm.
    My hubby works night while i work days so some of our friends are amazed that we manage to do it that much.
     
  8. mrs nel

    mrs nel Well-Known Member

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    During our ttc period we dtd every day if possible. This week we had 4 fertile days so we dtd those 4 days. When its normal we dtd maybe twice a week. However it does depend on how much we did during fertile week as it can become more about doing for a baby rather than for fun!
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  9. Jazzy.fizzle

    Jazzy.fizzle Well-Known Member

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    See I struggle with this...I have zero sex drive! :wall2: (My oh has a considerably higher one than me)
    Therefore actually dtd regularly is difficult for me. (Before ttc it was normally 1 or 2 times in 6wks).
    Has anyone had the same issues? Or are you all rabbits? :oooo: Lol.
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  10. minniemaker

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    When I was younger I used to be, now I must admit I have to think about it rather than it being a lust thing, maybe its being married for a long time that did it.. although sometimes I still want to jump his bones its not a daily thing ha! Mucky books help me (tmi sorry ha!)
     
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    I struggle with dtd as much as we should, really since about a year of TTC last time and even now my sex drive hasn't really returned :(
     
  12. minniemaker

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    I must have dropped about a thousand hints last night... bar jumping on him (which I didnt do dont want him to think Im desperate) he didnt cotton on... men!
     
  13. xxcharliexx

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    Ttc or not we normally dtd every other day and then we will have days were we dtd every day. Oh would do it 3-4 times a day if he had his way!!! X
     

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