don't inspire me with confidence will you!

Discussion in 'First Trimester' started by Iwant3, Jul 29, 2013.

  1. Iwant3

    Iwant3 Well-Known Member

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    I contacted the place locally to me that does viability/reassurance scans....I have contacted them with each miscarriage and had appointments booked etc, but never made any of them :(

    anyway I asked for an appt on a specific date, i got a reply saying we will contact you in a weeks time to check everything is still ok before we go ahead and book:shock::shock:

    no PMA in that is there - they don't want to bother wasting another of their appointments if I'm just gonna miscarry again:wall2:
     
  2. T84

    T84 Well-Known Member

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    Aw that's horrendous!!! :-( how can they send something so unreassuring?! :hugs: :hugs: x x
     
  3. Iwant3

    Iwant3 Well-Known Member

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    I know......it's like I'm an unreliable customer who keeps booking appointments and then cancelling them! er not my fault! And please don't assume I will mc again just because i did before! I was trying to be so positive this time.
     
  4. Alwaystrying

    Alwaystrying Well-Known Member

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    Keep being positive, ignore them but when you do have your scan there I would mention to them that they need to work on thier approach to customers, not tactful at all
     
  5. Mummy2toddler

    Mummy2toddler Well-Known Member

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    Oh that's awful! Hope this bean is a sticky one x
     
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    Is it a private clinic?
     
  7. Milly76

    Milly76 Well-Known Member

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    I would try to find somewhere else to take your business - especially if its a private place and you are paying!!

    Ignore their negativity lady!

    xx
     
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    Mummybexee Well-Known Member

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    ^ as above

    I'd also write them an email explaining your absolute disgust x
     
  10. Jacq23

    Jacq23 Well-Known Member

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    That is very insensitive. I would look for somewhere else instead, even if you do have to travel a bit further xx
     
  11. Dotty_woman

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    How insensitive! Have you got any other places locally where you could go instead? You don't need that kind of attitude! I don't know where you are in the country but I went to a "This is my" scan centre for an early scan and they were excellent. They are mostly up north but think they have one in London too. Mine cost £80 I think. xxx
     
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    Jayjay027 Well-Known Member

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    WSS!
    I might also be tempted to send them an email tomorrow and complain in the hopes that they might apologise with a free scan lol x

    Tapatalking from my blackberry!
     
  13. Mummybexee

    Mummybexee Well-Known Member

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    ^ yep lol! free scan or ill use social media against you god damn!!
     
  14. Baby Bean

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    Agree with the others, take your business elsewhere, and ignore them hun xxx :hug:
     
  15. Blanco

    Blanco Well-Known Member

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    That's awful! I would write to head office and tell them it left you emotional afterwards how dare they!
     
  16. Rednursie

    Rednursie Well-Known Member

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    You poor thing, that's the last thing you want to hear! Heartless fuc*ers! I hope you find somewhere else a bit more sympathetic xxx
     
  17. Iwant3

    Iwant3 Well-Known Member

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    After speaking to DH he doesn't want to get an early scan at all, and i didn't tell him about the email - he just doesn't want to - so we're waitng for the dating scan at 12/13 weeks! probably best, as I was worrying about an early scan.

    so when they do contact again, I can say no thanks!
     
  18. naomip

    naomip Well-Known Member

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    How rude and insensitive. Keep your pma up, I'm sure your bubs is absolutely fine this time x x x
     
  19. vic30

    vic30 Well-Known Member

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    Wtf! Excusey my language! That's disgraceful! I'd definitely take your business elsewhere. In the meantime, I wouldn't bother with an email...too friendly these days...go the old fashioned way and write a letter of complaint. I'm very good with patronising writing to really offend them...also go the whole hog...say you're going to write to the local paper...lay it on thick, or am I being harsh lol

    Xx
     

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