Does this look like a baby bump to you?!

[cmb]

if so how far along do i look?
i'm so worried, please help. :/

 

[evie_smith]

im not sure how much do you weight and is your tummy relaxed in this pic?

 

[Mamafy]

We couldn't possibly know from a picture, can you tell us more about your situation?

 

[Toonlass]

Are you late for your period? I mean it could be a bump or it could be bloating xx

 

[evie_smith]

thats what i was thinking i didnt show till like 15 weeks plus with my first so i have no idea other show straight away you might just have a little swelling hun x

 

[cmb]

yes, my stomach is relaxed in that picture. i could try and take a better one though if that would be useful.
i havent weighed myself recently, but beforehand i was about 10st and i'm 5'9".
normally i have quite a flat stomach and im a comfortable size 8/10 but over christmas i've gone up to a 12 and now look like that.
my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time in november and we did use protection, i had really light bleeding about a week ago for about two days but that's all. my periods can be irregular so i've put off having a test until earlier today when my friend noted that i had "more of a stomach".

 

[Toonlass]

I can only advise that you take a test hun. Its the only way you will know for sure. Have you gained and inches anywhere else? xx

 

[evie_smith]

i would then you will know. How old are you hun?

 

[cmb]

not especially, it's mainly around my waist where ive noticed it which is why alarm bells are ringing.

 

[Mamafy]

I think you have to test, its the only way of knowing

 

[cmb]

i'm 17, just started my a levels. i dont know what to do if i am actually pregnant. i'll lose so much. :/
and i am going to do a test tomorrow.

 

[cmb]

are there any other symptoms i should look out for right now? given the time etc?

 

[Toonlass]

If you were pregnant, your boobs would most likely be swollen and maybe sore. You shouldn't torture yourself with this worrying, do a test then at least you will know either way xx

 

[cmb]

i know i shouldn't, but i can't help it. it's been in the back of my mind all christmas and my friend's comment sort of confirmed my worries. i guess i haven't taken the test yet because i'm fearing the worst...

 

[Mamafy]

I agree with Toonlass, no point in stressing until you know for sure Take a test and let us know hun

 

[evie_smith]

at least you will know tomorow invest in a good clear blue one then you will know how far you are gone if you are pregnant x

 

[cmb]

thank you all for your advice, i will go to the store tomorrow and get a clear blue one. how much are they out of curiousity?
and what actually happens if it's positive?! :S

 

[evie_smith]

they are around 10-15 pounds and if you are just make a doctors appointment to confirm and he will disguss your options and tell you to take folic acid ect . . tell you when you are due if you are x

 

[AugustMum]

If you didnt want a digital one, at asda theyve got 2 clear blue (none digi) ones for £9. Its what I got, so you still get the reassurance from a good make, but dont have to spend alot. Hope thats of some use!

 

[cmb]

thank you. i'll get more than one, just in case.
if im not pregnant then why am i so big all of a sudden?
and if i am pregnant, then what should i do about school and parents?!

sorry about all the questions... ive kept quiet for so long, it's just as much a relief to actually let them out as it is to get feedback.
i also feel so awful for feeling not wanting to be pregnant, when there are women out there who cant have children. im sorry.
we did use a condom though. AND we waited for 2 years until i turned 17 and it felt right ANDDD it was our first time.