Luckily, most people ask me if they can. And I'm a grumpy cow and say no!!! It feels too much to have people touch it, so I only let my husband, my sister (given that she's been stroking it squealing with excitement about there being something there since I was 7 weeks, it was a difficult one to stop anyway!!) and my mum. Why do people do it? If i say it's kicking, then ok maybe, but just "hi, how are you? Can I touch your bump?", why!!!! One person in work does it without asking, it makes me feel so uncomfortable!!!