Well...I’m doing it. It took months but I’ve come to terms with the fact that my husband has a mental illness, and the delusions he has with it are all directed at me. Not simply infidelity when I’ve never cheated, but accusations that I have naked photos and videos online (many don’t even look like me or have no heads but he says I Photoshop them), that I’m a call girl, have secret phone numbers...the list goes on. And I should “prove to him” I’m telling the truth. He hasn’t gotten help yet despite me begging him to, and I think a therapist won’t cut it. I’ve since left - baby girl is my priority and she and I can’t stay in that environment. It’s not healthy. I am with my parents in a different state, and in such a loving environment. Will deliver the baby here, but eventually move back home (once DH is no longer in our home, probably will have to be mandated by the court). I know it’s the right thing and baby girl will be SO much better off. But I’m sad and angry and scared, and starting to file for divorce. Have any other mamas gone through this? I welcome any advice.