I tested again this morning and got a BFP after 5 mins. So I phoned my OH and told him - what a relief! I now have the issue of the new job, but I didn't know that I was pg when I accepted it, and also it is still very early so.... ANyway OH laughed for about 5 mins!! Shock I think! and also because we have a bit of a joke about the potency of the sperm in his family (all his brothers and sisters have lots and lots of kids!!) I'm going to get a confirmation at the doctors this week but I certainly feel PG and am now about 4 days late so fingers crossed that everything will go OK. THanks everyone for your advice!