hopefuldadtobe
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Hi,
this is my first post and I am asking for advice, desperately.
I have googled a lot about bleeding during pregnancy and realise it is quite common and probably crops up on the forum a lot, but I can't find the answers I need.
My wife has been bleeding since we found out she was pregnant. We had a miscarriage at 3 months last year and that was preceded by bleeding too. Also, we think she had an early miscarriage the previous year too. We are desperate for everything to be ok, but as a result of history and this desperation to have a healthy pregnancy and child I feel there is pressure and stress. How much can this be effecting things?
I want nothing more than to reassure my wife and tell her it will be ok, but I can't believe this myself when things don't feel as they should. I understand spotting can occur in upwards of 1 in 10 pregnancies, but is it normal for one person to bleed each time they are pregnant?
My wife is trying to take control of things and relax and meditate, but I think she still feels a lot of pressure to be strong enough to hold onto this child. I am at a loss, and I don't know what to do.
thanks in advance,
R
this is my first post and I am asking for advice, desperately.
I have googled a lot about bleeding during pregnancy and realise it is quite common and probably crops up on the forum a lot, but I can't find the answers I need.
My wife has been bleeding since we found out she was pregnant. We had a miscarriage at 3 months last year and that was preceded by bleeding too. Also, we think she had an early miscarriage the previous year too. We are desperate for everything to be ok, but as a result of history and this desperation to have a healthy pregnancy and child I feel there is pressure and stress. How much can this be effecting things?
I want nothing more than to reassure my wife and tell her it will be ok, but I can't believe this myself when things don't feel as they should. I understand spotting can occur in upwards of 1 in 10 pregnancies, but is it normal for one person to bleed each time they are pregnant?
My wife is trying to take control of things and relax and meditate, but I think she still feels a lot of pressure to be strong enough to hold onto this child. I am at a loss, and I don't know what to do.
thanks in advance,
R