After 5 years together and 2 years umming and arring whether to have a child me and my OH finally made the decision to try for a baby... now all of a sudden he has gone quiet in the bedroom! We normally have a fantastic sex life yet now it really matters he just seems to turn over and go to sleep! Weve probably only had sex about 6 times since my last period . Im pretty fuming about it, I have asked him over and over if he is 100% certain that he wants us to try, and he is it seems (unless he is a VERY good liar!) I have spoken to him about my concerns, I am 35 so I want to conceive as fast as possible but he seems really laid back about it all. He has 2 kids from a previous relationship and reckons that he is very fertile and has told me not to worry, he reckons he will get me pregnant without even thinking about it! I on the other hand want to try properly for speedy results lol i.e always BDing on my most fertile days, lying with a pillow under my hips etc (you know the drill!) So is it me being pushy or do all men react this way? I don't know if its because Im hypersensitive atm because I do really want us to non stop bonk til Im pregnant LOL or are men in general as laid back as this?!!! Advice ladies pls! xx RANT OVER!!!!