So as most of you will know my lo does not sleep, nor does he self settle. I have always been against controlled crying but I am now at the stage where I really feel I have no other option. Tonight I put him down and went in after 2 mins shhh then after 4 mins and so on, after half hour he had fallen asleep. I know I have to stick with this now, and am dreading tonight...I plan on not giving him a bottle as I usually do as by rights he shouldn't need it now at nearly 11 months old. So do any of you have any advice...did it work? How long did it take? I know this isn't going to be easy but for our own sanity we need to at least try it as we are both absolutely worn out. Thanks in advance!