I meant weighing up in my last post, not waying up!! Oh dear lol
We did alot of research into cosleeping. I was terrified about it, like most people that it was dangerous. This is not the case. You do have to take precautions, but then you do with cot sleeping also. Don't go to bed drunk or on drugs! Simple really. Don't use quilts, we did, but we kept them at waist height and lower. the heating was always on when he was first born so it was never cold anyways.
Cosleeping, infact, probably promotes healthy breathing in babies. It is good for them to be close enough to hear your heart beating. Our son still sleeps with us. Our next will too... I don't know how we'll all fit in the bed at this rate lol
People used to cosleep all through history, it's natural. Anti-cosleeping campaign came from... cot manufacturers
Japan (I think it's there, I can't remember without gonig back to look), cosleeps until the child is in school. Look at their nation, amazing.
I won't post any more in this thread though as it is a sensitive subject to me. Everyone has to make a choice that is right for them. Some babies don't even like to cosleep anyways. But I just get really upset when it becomes an anti-cosleeping crusade. So will step back now before the pregnancy hormones drag me in even more lol
If anyone ever wants to talk about cosleeping, please feel free to pm me.
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