So I have two little boys from my ex husband they are 3 & 4. I met who I believed to be the love of my life and have been together for around 2 years. He has no children. He is 30 was a bit of a party animal a dj in big clubs and also in a band! He always said he wanted children and before he met me had a bit of a life plan! Along the lines of partying music no girlfriend until late 30s early 40's then have children. However he met me and we fell madly in love! I explained both my children were fertility and little miracles. Anyway we would have unprotected sex not expecting anything but knowing full well consequences. Strangely this month i stopped half way and said again you know you can get me pregnant . He said he knows he isn't stupid. So I found out I was pregnant over the moon excited and couldn't wait to see his face. The colour drained and said he isn't ready for children and he doesn't want them. But he will have "it" and will step up! I have been so upset at his reaction! He knew my Cumming (sorry) he runs the risk of children which he was happy to! I don't want him to just have the baby because he has to I want him to want the baby! He says he has no feelings towards the baby but loves me and said he will provide! He said I was being dramatic and that loads of people don't actually want children when they find out. Am I being dramatic? I am so upset heartbroken! I can't even speak to him right now.