is anyone else finding that as soon as our boyfriends know that we are pregnant that they start being a bit horrible. please give advise.
hi ya i have had exactly the same problem i am 17 and had been with my ex for four years and we were seretly engaged and i was totally happy we were going to tell our familys we were getting married when i turned 18, we always spoke about if an accident did happen and i fell pregnant i would not be able to have an abortion and he agreed, but when i thought i was pg he was great and it made me love him even more - but when we found out i was actually pregnant he changed he no longer wanted to know me and broke up with me a week after we found out i was heart broken and felt like i couldnt cope anymore but luckily my famiily were great and have been very supportive, my ex has sed he wants to see the baby but not me and wants his mum to pick up the baby when he has bubba - not happening, but he has also sed that he doesnt want the baby so i got an appointment next week with a solicitor to find out what rights he has but with the suport of my famly i am getting over him it hasnt been easy as i still love him and probably always will but i am going to have my baby --- sorry for babbling hope things work out better for you! sarah and bubba
I have put it down to my hormones, he is learning to do what I ask, yet I still have to ask! I think they don't know what to say sometimes, I asked him if I had but much weight on from the back "Yer alittle" was is reply, which made me cry, so deff my hormones, he is learning to say I look radiant and blooming and sexy, because he knows that is a better path to take! Since getting preggy He as said I am putting weight on, looked at porn sites and said my privates look like a camels foot (Got from guys at work looking at daily sport) He is now learning to be nicer to me after shouting at him and crying alot! Got me some flowers and is being alot more nicer! Make fun of him now!
God men they are he pains of our life aint they. Wen i told my boyfrriend he took full responsibility and was great, which i thought was brill (i thought he was gonna beat me up and throw aload of questions at me, lol) but lately i think god he is being a dick, he doesnt seem to acknowledge it, even tho he says he is gonna be so involved. And i dunno i reckon he is gonna do a runner soon. Ahhh well, ill track him down and torture him then, ohh i like bein nasty. heheh
HEY BOO BOO, THAT REALLY MADE ME LAUGH YOU KNOW, MY B/F TOLD ME WE COULDNT AFFORD A HOLIDAY BUT YET HE GAVE HIS MA AND DA £200 TO GO ON HOLS THEMSELVES SO IF HE DOESNT TAKE ME THERE WILL BE WAR,
Ohh yeah make war, hehe i love a good argument with the oh, it keeps things alivve, hehe. (GOD NO WONDER IM GONNA BE ON MY OWN, LOL, GOTTA SORT THAT OUT) ok then maybe u could say if he wont take u on holiday ull go urself then pitch a tent in the garden and protest for a few weeks. Hehe that will be funny. bec x x x x
YEH HE GAVE IN, HE SAID WE CAN GO, IM AL EXCITED I REALLY NEED A HOLIDAY HAVE HAD SO MUCH GRIEF THE PAST WHILE THAT I REALLY DONT NEED, SO I NEED TO RELAX IN A LILO FLOATIN MY TROUBLES AWAY, BUT THE TENT IDEA SOUNDS FUN. WHAT DO U DO ABOUT GIRLS GIVIN U HASSLE AND U CANT REACH FOR THEM COS U ARE PG. LOL
Yeah ur going on hol, u lucky sod. MMMM girl trouble how about a baseball bat, that shud stretch ove ur bump and show em whos boss, lol. Where ya off on hols en. bec x
HE SAID I CAN PICK THE HOLIDAY BUT IM GOING TO WAIT TIL LAST MIN AND GET A CHEAP DEAL, DONT SEE THE POINT PAYIN A FORTUNE FOR HOL, SO IM AL EXCITED, WAS AWAY SWIMIN TODAY WE AND HIM HAVE DECIDED TO GO UP UNTIL THE BIRTH SO THAT WE KEEP ME FIT SO HOPEFULLY THE LABOUR WONT BE AS TOUCH LOL AS IF.
I was not worried about labour one little bit, untill i went oit with my friends for a meal the other day and they all started talking about it, then i started to worry, lol. bec x x
