We've been doing great with BLW so far. The odd couple of gagging episodes, but nothing too bad. Tonight, however, she was having some toast and made a few gagging noises so I just let her cough it out.. but she didn't. She stopped gagging and went bright bright, eyes watering, mouth wide open like she was trying to cough but no air or sound was coming out. We could see the toast and it had actually got stuck to the roof of her mouth, quite far back. We were desperate to dislodge it but knew this could be really dangerous, especially because of how far back the toast was already. So OH grabbed her out of the highchair and as soon as he did and she was tipped forward and had her back slapped, she got really sick everywhere but the toast was STILL there. But she then finally started coughing and it came out. My god, our hearts still haven't recovered It's making me really question myself... WHY am I putting her through this? If she had actually choked I would have totally blamed myself for not going with purees. I mean, I KNOW she'll be on solids eventually anyway, which is the only thing keeping me going with blw, but I really need some support, please, mummies! It really, really scared us!