Bloody MIL!!!!!!

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by gypsy, Dec 14, 2007.

  1. gypsy

    gypsy Well-Known Member

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    I visited my MIL the other day and apparently the reason I lost my baby for a second time is because it is god's way of telling me my body is not ready to carry another baby!!!!!
    Now, i am not religious at all,but I bit my tongue and told her that we would just try again. The response I had to this was a scowling old woman seething through her teeth..........
    "YOU STUPID WOMAN!!!!!!!!!"
    "Why is that" I asked her........."You have 6 children!!!!"
    "Ah yes, but things were different then. There is nothing in this world to bring children into it for"
    "Oh yes,really different, There was a war going on!!!!!!"

    I really had to bite my tongue with her as I now she is feeling down as this is her first xmas without FIL but PLEASE!!!!!!!!! :twisted: :twisted:

    Sorry, rant over.............
     
  2. reallyoldmum

    reallyoldmum Well-Known Member

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    Gypsy dont upset yourself - people say the stupidest of things - my mum keeps on telling me to pull myself together at the moment and to stop getting upset!!

    You will see, when you do get pregnant and present her with a beautiful little grandchild she will be over the moon - in the meantime :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  3. Slinky Sarah

    Slinky Sarah Well-Known Member

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    OMG!!!! Cos that is really what you wanted to hear!!!!
    I got told the whole, well you are too young (amlost 20) so it was a blessing speach!!! Ok it wasnt fcrom my MIL or anything just idiots at work but still gets to you!!
    I hope your next bean sticks chick!
     
  4. Slinky Sarah

    Slinky Sarah Well-Known Member

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    Exactly what i keep getting! i dont get it from OH cos he understands but mum just freezes and dad just ignores it.


    So sorry for both your losses gypsy and ROM...here if you want a chat at any point
     
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    Bagpuss17 Well-Known Member

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    :hug: :hug: :hug:

    People can be so insensitive and tactless at times.

    :hug:
     

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