Sarah
After having five babies and this one being my 6th Ill be honest with you that although making a birth plan is a good idea you must also be prepared for it change at any time whilst in labour. I was very much I want a natural birth and don't give me any drugs until I actually went into labour where i turned into a "give me it all and NOW" person. Personally for this reason i dont bother and just go with the flow of how things are going.
Basically though you can say what drugs you would like, what drugs you do not wish to have. Do you want your husband/partner to cut cord, you can actually be specific and say that you dont want the nurses to say what sex (if you dont know) but let your husband/partner tell you. Sure that there are lots of other things as well that someone else will be able to help you with
Ragna xxxx