BFP i think but sooooo worried after MC's

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I don't really know what to say but need to share my frustrations with someone and give my poor OH a rest (he is great).
Have had 3 MC's since May - well 2 defo and 1 that is highly likely. Anyway just felt a bit weird this cycle and though it was hormones still up in air after MC in Oct and having had tests done at hospital etc but have tested and got a BFP. In fact have done one (or two) everyday for the last week and they have all been BFP's LOL!
Can't believe it and I really want to be super excited cos this week has been crap. Our baby should have been due last week but had MC in May for first time, and this week and christmas in general has been really tough going so far and very emotional. Now i am scared to believe that this BFP will stick and so can't get too excited but really want to be and I'm soo mixed up and confused.
Sorry to rant on but am all over the place - crying, smiling at tests, feeling stressed and sick and dying for a huge glass of wine!:wall2:
 
I can appreciate your fear, but you are always going to have to go through this to get your little baby - which i'm such you will do in the end :)

I was reading about something today, where repeat miscarriages can be due to incompatible blood rh (baby inherits daddy's blood type and mummy's body reacts to it) - have you and hubby been tested because it can be treated during pregnancy... i'm sure you would have, but it's better to say than not say i guess :)

Oh, and congratulations too :good:
 
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I have been to hospital for blood tests, internal exams and a scan for my repeat MC's and OH has had his blood tested too.
My blood results have come back normal for clotting and hormone levels etc. I'm going back to hospital in January for scan results (but think they were ok) and for my and OH's blood to be tested against each other for chromosome incompatability etc.
 
aww huny im sorry for you mc's but fingers crossed this is a sticky little bean jodie
p.s lots of baby dust to you :dust: :dust:
 
Congrats & hope it's an extra sticky lil bean for you hun
xxx
 
congrats.. hope everything works out for you xx
 
Congratulations hunny, wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months x x x


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Beanster that is fabbbbb news! I really hope this is a sticky bean for you :) you really deserve this. xxx
 
congrats hun, hope everything goes fine this time xx
 
congrats hun, you wouldn't be normal if you didn;t worry, but wanted to give you a bit of hope i had 2 children then 2 miscarriages, then another 2 children then 3 miscarriages maybe 4 but i dont count that one cause it was basically a day got positive then came on, and i think the next month when i got my bfp it could well have still been from then (but thats a different story) anyway doctor told me i was just unlucky and i am happy to report that then had another baby and am pregnant again now, so miracles can happen and you can get your baby after many miscarriages.
 
Yeah your the same as me. I read somewhere online that if your blood type O your eggs are less viable and that :S Only found this out after I was having problems conceiving but then I finally got my baby or at least one to stick :) x

I found out I have PCOS so might have problems having another one after this one but I hope not x

I hope everything works out for you hun x
 
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Congratulations beanster!!!!! know exactly how you are feeling i got my BFP after MC and i am feeling the same way, if you need to chat just let me know!!!!1
 
My sister had three mc and then had 2 healthy pregnancies after that. Try to relax and enjoy honey x huge congrats
 
Congratulations beanster!!!!! know exactly how you are feeling i got my BFP after MC and i am feeling the same way, if you need to chat just let me know!!!!1

weggi thank you so much - would love to talk things over! Went to see the doctor today for an official test and it was positive!
 

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