I had one at home today. I'll be honest I really wasn't looking forward to it, and it's not pleasant. I just took deep breaths through it and I'm alive to tell the tale
I would actually really recommend it, even after being so terrified of my appt today. I'm 41+2 and I decided to go with it mainly because I wanted to see what was going on in there. Tuns out she could tell me I'm 1cm dilated, could stretch to 2cm, my cervix is wherre it should be and has thinned out. She also tickled his head and was able to tell me that the membranes are really tight across his head.
So basically she thinks i'll go into labour on my own, but I'm booked in for an induction on Friday anyway. I'm glad I at least know where I stand and I was beginning to think my body wasn't doing anything at all but seemingly everything's going hunky dory!
It does sting when I pee now, and I instantly had period cramps which have kind of gone now, and I have got a light pink watery type bleeding going on, but nothing to worry about and I'm monitoring it.
So all in all, I would definitely recommend even if it's to find out what stage you body is at.
Finally, just remember that even though I recommend it, it's not necessarily right for everyone and you have every right to decline if you want to. They cannot make you have one.
Sorry for the long post, but my experience is still fresh in my mind so thought I'd share!!!
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