Following Jen's success i need some advice. DD bedtime and nights are all over the place and its probaly my own fault for doing the easy option and resorting to having her in my bed. She will not go to bed before 10 at night and will only settle in our bed and then i have to carry her into the cot (a big no no i know as she wakes in a strange place) but she just screams. Shes waking 343789920746 times in the night for the boob and will only settle back to sleep when she comes into are bed and then i go throught the carry her into her own bed again. I know im causing half of these problems myself but need some advice as to putting it right. Ive tried cc and its not been sucessful at bedtime yet she gets into such a state that it takes ages to calm her down and i hate it. I can tolerate the whinging but not the full on screaming. I know shes able to settle herself as i put her down for an afternoon nap and shes fine no more than 20 mins whinging and shes fallen asleep. I really want to get her into her own bed at night.