Hi - I'm wondering if anyone else has had a bad experince with a doctor??
Last Thursday I sex with OH for the first time since finding out I was pregnant, I started bleeding that evening and even though I have read about it being normal to bleed, I had a complete freak out!! - Couldn't see the midwife cuz I'm still waiting for the booking in appointment!
I got an appointment with a female doctor for the next day - I'd never seen her before cuz I've recently changed surgeries.
Anyways, when I went there, I explained what had happened and then two things happened which have left me really angry.....
I explained that I knew I was probably over reacting but wanted some reassurance.....and explained the whole thing....and her response was literally this:
'Well the bad news is that 1/4 of all pregnancies end in misscarriage and there is nothing you can do about it' - I was completely floored, I couldn't believe she said this!! Not the most reassuring start is it?
Then when she was explaining why I was bleeding (well, light spotting really) she told me it was implantation bleeding - that my baby is implanting into the lining of the womb....now correct me if I'm wrong but this happens at about 3-4 weks right??? I'm over 9 weeks!!! My baby has def implanted by now! I felt like she was treating me like a complete idiot and not even giving me accurate facts....
Am I overreacting? Cuz even writing this makes me so angry!!! Maybe it's the hormones and I'm being silly - but I told my husband and he said I should have just walked out when she said about the whole miscarriage thing.
Anyways, wondered what you all think??
xxxx
Last Thursday I sex with OH for the first time since finding out I was pregnant, I started bleeding that evening and even though I have read about it being normal to bleed, I had a complete freak out!! - Couldn't see the midwife cuz I'm still waiting for the booking in appointment!
I got an appointment with a female doctor for the next day - I'd never seen her before cuz I've recently changed surgeries.
Anyways, when I went there, I explained what had happened and then two things happened which have left me really angry.....
I explained that I knew I was probably over reacting but wanted some reassurance.....and explained the whole thing....and her response was literally this:
'Well the bad news is that 1/4 of all pregnancies end in misscarriage and there is nothing you can do about it' - I was completely floored, I couldn't believe she said this!! Not the most reassuring start is it?
Then when she was explaining why I was bleeding (well, light spotting really) she told me it was implantation bleeding - that my baby is implanting into the lining of the womb....now correct me if I'm wrong but this happens at about 3-4 weks right??? I'm over 9 weeks!!! My baby has def implanted by now! I felt like she was treating me like a complete idiot and not even giving me accurate facts....
Am I overreacting? Cuz even writing this makes me so angry!!! Maybe it's the hormones and I'm being silly - but I told my husband and he said I should have just walked out when she said about the whole miscarriage thing.
Anyways, wondered what you all think??
xxxx