So i am 22 weeks pregnant with a boy i chose a lovely name for my son let's call it "E" ; but as so many close people had issues with the name and good reasons for the issue i thought i would carry on searching; i carried on searching and came across an even better name for my son lets call it "P" ; i told my sister about my new name and she goes "oh noo! that's Lucy's future son's name" Lucy being her best friend. i thought nothing of it and just said "oh wow" with no intention to change my name. i thought, ok, let me atleast let Lucy know that i am using this name. i contacted her and Lucy was so distraught! proper BROKEN! at the end of her panick she said "well there has to be 2 of them then" meaning that she will still name her kid "p" . i am fine with this as i know that when the time comes she will probably not name her kid "P" as it would remind her too much of my son. Lucy and i are like family, she is practically my lil sister. but Lucy is currently single -_- ; we have no clue whether she will even have any boys she keeps goign "yh it's cool, that's cool" as if she is giving me permission to use the name i will ofcourse go ahead with the name but i am wondering whether any of you would have expected me to drop the name if you were in Lucy's shoes?