Asked hubby!!

[scaredmum2be]

There is a forum i thought hubby wud like to join it but appears not it was calls dadscafe basically all dads to talk bout pregnancy an how they feel an worries an fears, so i asked him would he like the link he said no!!

oh well least no one can say i never tried x

 

[Lovisa]

Aww bless you.
Did he explain why he did not want to join?
As you said at least you tried.

How are you hun? So sorry I've not been on here much, work has been so hectic.
Some people have moaned at me to rest and stop going into work if I don't feel well.
I'll start trying lol

Is the website co.uk or com? As I might mention it to my OH.
Hope you and bump are doing well hun x

 

[titch]

yeah whats the actual website called, I'll see if my OH is interested. Thing is, a lot of guys arent used to 'sharing their feelings' and stuff so he might just not see the need.

 

[titch]

OMG I found it, ladies, click the link and leave the laptop on....
http://www.dadcafe.co.uk/articles/caring-for-a-mum-to-be.php

 

[scaredmum2be]

there is alot of men that can show a sign of interest hubbys shown nothing an to be honest its been like it for while even after we got married hes not bothered with me much but i have to deal with it lol
im ok hun an u shud try an rest but if u feel like u cant then its different lol.
I bet both of ur OH'S will sign on to the forum, im sure if my hubby can join a fish forum an go on bout his life on there im sure he wud of made a little effort for a change. ill be ok
hope ur partners join an enjoy the experiance as much as you can, i know im trying to xx

 

[evajo]

Men, I deffo think your OH and mine are secret twins - dont let it get you down just savour every moment yourself!

 

[scaredmum2be]

Men, I deffo think your OH and mine are secret twins - dont let it get you down just savour every moment yourself!

lol really? wonder if they were in secret life an i will chick thanks x

 

[bwakeling]

He might just be freaking out a little - give him time, it's scary for us too!

 

[ria__x]

it's nice to have a man on the site - hello bwakeling! my OH says he joins forums and that but he's just not bothered by that side of things. he's more of a talker than a typer but he's always talking to our bump and tearing up at every possible baby saviour moment so i have faith in him! lol xxx

 

[jason1234]

sorry to see that your OH still isnt sharing his feelings with you, keep trying and try a variety of approaches.
hope all is well

 

[scaredmum2be]

hes got 5 more months to show more interest, hope he has a reality check soon though.
Althogh ive asked him if hes scared he sed no which if he hasnt an people say he might be scared then he best not be lying bout he feels because thats not what i want him to do lol.
Hubby doesnt speak to bump i end up speaking to bump when im alone in the bath lol.
x

 

[Lovisa]

Are things any better hun?
I actually forgot to mention the forum to my OH, think I'll do that later.
Have you bought anymore stuff?

 

[mummynmummy2b]

Sorry that you're having a hard time. My DH was a bit like that with our first, when i was pregnant we did nothing but argue, it didnt feel like he was excited and because of all the gushing hormones I felt really alone. Turns out he was totally cacking himself! Worried about everything under the sun but trying to be the strong male figure (pffft!!! Dont bother trying to be strong men We dont like it!!) . Also i think he felt a bit left out as it was me feeling everything and bonding with LO before he had chance. As soon our son arrived he grew into the best husband and father over night. A lot of men dont get that attachment until they actually meet LO. I'm sure everything will be ok its just a huge adjustment!! Good luck xxx