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Charlotte & Emily

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OMG why are men such tw*ts?

i wont go into too much detail but basically, me and my ex both decided to split up, now hes told every1 i dumped him to get sympathy and he says i wont let him see emily but i really want him 2 c her and ive told him i want him 2 b in her life as much as i am.

Over the past few days hes been texting me asking me if im sure i want 2 split up, so ive said yes (i dont love him anymore, how can i go back to him?) and he keeps telling me how much ive hurt him.
He has got so much cheek... he was really nasty to me throughout my pregnancy, he hardly came 2 c me and complained when i didnt get on a bus to his house when i was overdue. He left the hospital straight after emily was born and has hardly seen her since.

Now he text me sayin hes never going to come and see emily again because i dont want him to and he never wants 2 c me again and hes going to send me everything ive ever given him!!!!!

Sorry to moan ladies, i just feel like im going to burst im so angry and i get so worked up that i cant take care of emily propaly
 
Men eh!! :?

He is only saying these things to get a reaction from you because he is hurt. Try not to let him get to you :hug: :hug:
 
hun hes obviously a child trying tp play a mans game, let him throw his tantrums as long as you keep the offer open for him to see little beauty then your not doing anything wrong, dont let him get you down concentrate on you and your little lady (who is scrummy btw)
 
let him say what he wants darlin and if he dosnt want to see his beautiful daughter then that's his loss as the others say he is looking for a reaction, dont give him the satisfaction, however hard it is.

what I would suggest though is that every time he lets Emily down over access keep a record of it as you never know when you might need it

good luck and stay strong
 
Snuggle said:
Men eh!! :?

He is only saying these things to get a reaction from you because he is hurt. Try not to let him get to you :hug: :hug:

yeah Chaelihol i totally agree with Snuggle, men are such t*ats hun, dont let him get to you, if he doesnt want Emily in his life then its his big loss hun!! take care babes :hug: :hug:
 
awww hun forget him concentrate on ur lil girl the real kid. if he wants to act so immature let him he is loosing out on u and his daughter
:hug: :hug:
 
Hi

I would also say ignore him if he doesnt want to see her let it be!
Also i would keep all his text messages they may come in handy if you ever had to go to court ( i know that sounds aweful)
:hug: your a great mom and at least you know she has you to raise her
Katrina
 
He sounds pathtic and immature. It hardly seems a great loss to your daughter if that's his attitude towards the whole thing. Good luck and be strong :hug:
 

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