So, I posted a few weeks ago about my baby shower that my sister was meant to be arranging for me as asked if I was being unreasonable because she told me I had to get the food and drinks. An today was the baby shower. What a mistake it was letting my sister do it. I was so angry I couldn't even enjoy the shower!!! About to have a massive bitchy rant now... Me an my boyfriend got to my mum and dads t 10am to tart setting thins up, get the food sorted, chairs and tables out and all that. My shower was due to start at 2.30 and as my sister wa the organiser I was stupidly expecting her to be tere to help set up before 2pm when she finially turned up!!! That instantly made me furious because she came in and started talking to our mum like crap and her lack of respect disgusted me. I'll as she is my older sister and I think at 23 years old you should be an adult and have respect for your mother. My dad as always was obvious to how nasty my sister was being. So she then just puts cakes down and says "I got these, get me a plate now" - sure shes capable of getting a plate when I've been dragging chairs and putting canopies up at 34 weeks pregnant all morning because she's too selfish to help!!!! When people arrive she just sat there, my mum said ate you going to sort drinks Francesca? (That's her name) she's replies to my mum who has MS, can't walk and in front of 17 people "not my fucking house you get them if your so bothered or Beth can it her baby shower" - bang out of order in my eyes. She's the organiser!!!! That means host to me, and she knows full well mum couldn't get the drinks, and that inset my mum because she was already feeling useless she then said to me "so what are we doing then" I told we I wa under the impression she was organising thins not me? She told me it was pretty hard to plan so she's only got one game. One game I've been asking for weeks if she has got games planned and she said every time, "yeah I'm really good at planning, and I've got loads planned" CLEARLY NOT!!!!!!!! I get up to go to the loo (can't drink anything nowadays!) and she follows me, asking if she can use MY WINE that I bought for MY GUESTS as prizes because she "forgot" I obly bought 5 bottles and she gave 3 away!! Then at the end she gets up and says "I'm going now I'm going to do stuff of my own now" leaving me an dad to tidy everything up again. And now I'm going to sound really spoilt but seeing a this is going to be her first neice, she got me a box as a gift. A box. Her friends got me a baby gym and a singing baby bouncer and she got me a bloody box!!! And what made me really angry was that she said she ony got the box because she's saving up to buy a cage that she can go in so she can't ruin her sofa. I have never met such a ridiculous selfish self centred person in my whole life and I was humiliated to introduce her to y friends and my boyfriends mum and sister. I feel so angry and frustrated and stressed from having to organise my baby shower on the day it's unreal!