right ok deep breaths... MIL/FIL just popped in for a cupa, love them both dearly and they are fantastic, first granchild so spoil him. but i'm getting sooo annoyed, soon as they walk in, straight over to pick JT up! even though he was settled, now he aint a newborn anymore and TBH he gets chewy really quickly when he's picked up, much more settled in his swing or on his playgym! so they leave and i'm left with a crying baby who wont settle for 20 mins!!! am i out of order if i tell people to stop picking him up? if i should tell them how do i do it without offending them? i feel horrible cos i know they love him and just wanna see him but they can coo over him and get him to smile without picking him up? i'm i being silly?