Anxiety

[SugaryIris]

hi,

So I got a bfp after years of trying and when we had started saving for ivf.

I’ve had three chemicals in the past.

I tested 12dpo and 14dpo, currently only 15dpo but I’ve never made it this far with such great line progression.

Yesterday and day before I had af like cramps but as my lines were progressing I took it as a good sign, I’ve also been waking up a lot in the night and very tired.

This morning I’ve had no cramps whatsoever and I feel it’s too early for these to have stopped. I’m crippled with anxiety that something is wrong and I know there is nothing I can do to change the inevitable outcome.

I know symptoms come and go and I’m over analysing everything I just wish there was some way I could make me feel better about this pregnancy.

 

[Elfs Mummy]

It’s completely normal for symptoms to come and go. Early pregnancy is so hard especially when you’ve had a previous loss. Try to relax as much as possible. Xx

 

[SugaryIris]

It’s completely normal for symptoms to come and go. Early pregnancy is so hard especially when you’ve had a previous loss. Try to relax as much as possible. Xx

Thanks hun, I know, and I’d be giving the same advice to anyone else!

I just wish I could open some kind of magical fortune cookie and it would tell me whether or not it will be ok!

 

[Elfs Mummy]

Thanks hun, I know, and I’d be giving the same advice to anyone else!

I just wish I could open some kind of magical fortune cookie and it would tell me whether or not it will be ok!

I’m almost 25 weeks and still an anxious mess. I was no where near as bad with my other babies but with these rainbows I’m a wreck it’s so much easier to give advice than to follow it x

 

[Aprilxxx]

How your feeling is normal!! I felt like this until I saw baby on my ultrasound after having two mc and sometimes I still panic and I’m 28 weeks soon!!

Try to keep calm.
As for the cramps, they come and go. No two days will be the same. I personally had no cramps until a week or so after my BFP.

 

[miamia]

Try to stay positive, although agree with Elfs Mummy, that it is easy to say, but not so easy to do