Emilyandbump
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I used to suffer with really bad anxiety. It started when i was pregnant with my little girl 4 years ago, and developed into health anxiety after she was born (i think it might've been post natal depression aswell) I was awful, i'd be checking my legs 3 times a day, paranoid i might have a blood clot. I'd walk around with hand sanitiser on me in fear of catching meningitis! It wasn't a nice time at all.
Anyway it all came to a head when my daughter was 17 months old, i left my partner as i wasn't happy (another story) and went to live with my mum. I didn't realise at the time, but i sort of had a breakdown. Drinking constantly when the kids were with their dad etc.
Anyway over time i got better. And didn't fear anything. I even could go Alton towers and go on rollercoasters! (big deal for me, my anxiety always held me back big time!)
I'd learned to be independent living on my own (i was 17 when i moved in with my ex, so he did everything, 22 when i moved out)
Now i'm with a lovely different partner who treats me like a princess, live in a nice house, and i'm happy.
My problem is that the last couple of weeks, i'm feeling my anxiety creeping back! And i'm terrified. I don't ever want to be like how i was 4 years ago again.
Last night me and my OH had a headache, and i felt sick. Normally i'd think nothing of it, and go to sleep. But i was paranoid that there was a carbon monoxide leak in the house! Then i woke up loads last night cos my leg really hurt and was paranoid i was developing a blood clot! I'm praying its just a funny few days cos im abit more tired than usual.
I keep trying to remember who i am, and how i was at my "good" time. I know im feeling abit anxious about the impending birth, and new baby, but i dont want to lose it again!
Does anyone else suffer with anxiety? Thanks for reading xx
Anyway it all came to a head when my daughter was 17 months old, i left my partner as i wasn't happy (another story) and went to live with my mum. I didn't realise at the time, but i sort of had a breakdown. Drinking constantly when the kids were with their dad etc.
Anyway over time i got better. And didn't fear anything. I even could go Alton towers and go on rollercoasters! (big deal for me, my anxiety always held me back big time!)
I'd learned to be independent living on my own (i was 17 when i moved in with my ex, so he did everything, 22 when i moved out)
Now i'm with a lovely different partner who treats me like a princess, live in a nice house, and i'm happy.
My problem is that the last couple of weeks, i'm feeling my anxiety creeping back! And i'm terrified. I don't ever want to be like how i was 4 years ago again.
Last night me and my OH had a headache, and i felt sick. Normally i'd think nothing of it, and go to sleep. But i was paranoid that there was a carbon monoxide leak in the house! Then i woke up loads last night cos my leg really hurt and was paranoid i was developing a blood clot! I'm praying its just a funny few days cos im abit more tired than usual.
I keep trying to remember who i am, and how i was at my "good" time. I know im feeling abit anxious about the impending birth, and new baby, but i dont want to lose it again!
Does anyone else suffer with anxiety? Thanks for reading xx