Annoyed with myself

Discussion in 'Coping with Miscarriage & Loss' started by TeeUK, Feb 3, 2012.

  1. TeeUK

    TeeUK Well-Known Member

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    I am really trying to come to terms with what has happened but I can't help going into tri2 and reading up on all the ladies....while I am so happy for them when they feel baby moving or see bubs on 20 week scan I can't help feeling so sad and jealous...then guilty for feeling that way.

    My 20 week scan was supposed to be on valentines day and we were going to have such a lovely day....now it will be so very sad....:cry:
     
  2. netty

    netty Well-Known Member

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    hun dont feel bad its natural to fel that way, only the other day i was in tri3 looking at the rollcall for marchs babys and noticed noone had the 13th march....that should have been me in there :-( :hugs: dont feel guilty for any feelings u get sweets honestly. I lost my bubs at 14 weeks in sept and i still get jealous now over BFP's and peoples bumps!
     
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    Oh hun sending you a big :hug: I'm really sorry your going through this. It's natural what your feeling. It's just giving yourself time to grieve and looking after yourself Xxx
     
  5. MrsL84

    MrsL84 Well-Known Member

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    Tee, it's natural to feel this way, talking from experience. My little girl was stillborn at 5 1/2 months in September, and I feel exactly the same as you, some days are harder than others. Take it day at a time and allow yourself to feel however you need xx
     
  6. mishi

    mishi Well-Known Member

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    Honey of course you feel like this, it's only natural and don't feel guilty about it :hugs: xx
     

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