Am I in the wrong

Discussion in 'Third Trimester' started by pinkyprincess, Dec 27, 2011.

  1. pinkyprincess

    pinkyprincess Well-Known Member

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    OH and MIL want me to go to hers for dinner on Thursday night after my sweep!

    Am I wrong in not wanting to just incase? My OH has taken it as a personal attack on his mum trying to guilt me saying things like 'she thinks you don't like going over there and you don't like her!' grrr!


     
  2. Hunnie

    Hunnie Well-Known Member

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    I'd want to be at home tbh in my own comfort incase things got started :/ but can you not compromise with OH and make sure that your home a bit earlier so you can relax if he's pulling a face that you should go? X
     
  3. pinkyprincess

    pinkyprincess Well-Known Member

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    Well my appts at about 2 and dinner would be around 6ish! I don't see why we can't go on Wednesday?


     
  4. jayx2

    jayx2 Well-Known Member

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    I don't think your in the wrong!! I'd feel the same you're obviously going to want to be where your most comfortable incase something starts to happen x
     
  5. star fish

    star fish Well-Known Member

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    Theres no way I would go out for dinner right now! How unreasonable!
     
  6. redbear

    redbear Well-Known Member

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    Call her and ask if you can move it to wednesday as you have a sweep and you may be uncomfortable/ things starting off... if she is reasonable then she should understand and maybe if you explain yourself she will realise its not about liking her or not xx
     
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    I wouldn't go or care what anyone else might think! There's nothing wrong with being focused on yourself and baby at this time instead of other people and what paranoid thoughts they might get.
     
  8. pinkyprincess

    pinkyprincess Well-Known Member

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    We've talked and he's agreed that we'll go tomorrow instead and he just told her on the phone it's because of my sweep. She seemed ok with it and think he's realised why too. Thank god!! Could you imagine sitting there around the whole of his family and my waters going :|


     
  9. star fish

    star fish Well-Known Member

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    I think its extremely good of you to go at all! Having his whole family around you right now sounds a nightmare any night, because quite frankly you could go at any time! Tonight, tomorrow or after sweep, all just as likely. I hope he's grateful, because I have put my foot down and refused to socialise with anyone this week
     
  10. l_maclean

    l_maclean Well-Known Member

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    Thats good that you have it sorted.

    I mean i guess you cant stay shut in the house in case ur waters go (although i may have change my mind about that when im at ur stage lol) - but right after a sweep your bound to be nervous. xxx
     
  11. pinkyprincess

    pinkyprincess Well-Known Member

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    Tbh I'd rather be around strangers or at home iykwim! I've been going out and keeping busy normally but after my sweep I wanna get bouncing!


     
  12. l_maclean

    l_maclean Well-Known Member

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    yeah - you must be getting impatient now. xxx
     
  13. positivity :)

    positivity :) Well-Known Member

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    Not only that, I was bleeding a fair bit after..deffo stay at home xx
     
  14. ForestLas80

    ForestLas80 Well-Known Member

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    Stay at home for deffo..... U might go into labour and it's more likely to happen at home xxxx
     
  15. BevG

    BevG Well-Known Member

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    yeah id just have said look i dont wanna go into labour at your mums dining table ok. its hardly polite dinner conversation for your waters to break over the carpet lol
     
  16. LoopyLouize

    LoopyLouize Well-Known Member

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    I can't believe your OH actually acted like that! Bloody men Ey! Think they should have a week of pregnancy just to see how exhausting it is! Glad you have compromised though x
     
  17. Olive

    Olive Well-Known Member

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    Not in the wrong. I agree Lou would be great for them to even experience a day and night being preg.


     
  18. hugsy

    hugsy Well-Known Member

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    oh your so not in the wrong not a hope id want to be in any oone elses house or evenhave anyone else in mine when waiting to see if sweep worked
    good luck for thursday hun xx
     

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