hey there im 20 and basically im terrified of finding out weather im pregnant i know it has to be done though! the thing is two year ago i had to have an abortion which i was more or less forced into as i was in such a fragile state and the father and his family were terrible people with what thay put me through. it was the biggest mistake of my life and wish i was stronger at the time as i have lost a big part of me. for the last 3 month my periods have been coming on every 2 weeks and my stomach has grown at an alarming rate but the thing is it was around about this time two years ago i would of gave birth could this be linked? id love a baby so much and not to replace the baby i lost he will always be in my heart forever. i did a test a month ago before my period but it was negative
Morning aymi05, The best thing I can suggest is that you go to your doctor and ask for a blood test to find out exactly whats going on, just explain the situation to him/her and I am sure they will be fine with that. You may well be experiencing symptoms because of your loss, especially as he is still in your thoughts a lot. Also, you didn't loose your baby......he will always be with you and your future family. Keep us posted. Much love
