Hi guys I'm new to this and I'm still trying to work out all the abbreviations!!! I'd be grateful for any advice - I'm 27 and just before I got married in Sept last year, I came off the pill in June and I was about 35 days between periods. I then had a real blip in Jan and Feb where I was 49 days both months this yr before my period showed. Then I was 29/30/34/30 but now I am "late".... as I'm currently on day 43.... I have noticed that no sooner do I have a drink, I am desperate for the loo and I feel like I am full of air right all the time! Other than that, I have no other "symptoms" and I have done about 4 tests in the last couple of weeks and all have shown negative. I don't want to test because I don't think I have left it long enough (I've read I should leave it until my longest period in the last 6 months) and I don't know if I am stressing myself out about the wonderful prospect of being pregnant! I would love to be! Any advice would be warmly appreciated!