Hi, My partner is on 6-2 shifts this week, he gets up at 5am and gets back for 3. He is a nightmare sleeper at the best of times so Jack and I are in the spare room all week. Anyway, he always gets really tired on this shift as over the weekend he does loads of hours with hardly any sleep. Last night I probably had about the same amount of sleep as him, what with Jack waking and being up early. Jack has been hard work today due to teething and being grouchy and sick so I was already feeling stressed and depressed. My partner comes in and gets a bath and goes to bed. I have to go out with Jack and get the shopping (also got a bad back) I come back, he is still asleep. I bath Jack, feed him, get him settled etc, absolutley drained from the day. He is still asleep. Jack wakes a few times grizzly which is really unusual as once he is down he is down till the early hours. At 9.15pm I decide my partner isnt going to wake so I decide to get a bath and grab something quick to eat afterwards. Im getting myself dry when he comes down stairs. He asks me whats wrong and I say im tired, explain Jacks grizzlyness etc etc. I say I have had nothing to eat and he says 'neither have I. I will go and make something' He starts to make a chilli. He then says 'can you go out and get some alcohol'. (We live in a place where you have to drive at least 10 mins to get to a shop) Im shocked.....not only am I now in my pj's after a bath and never go out after a bath but he knows how tired I am. I now have to wait for him to get back, I have to carry on making the tea and Im zonked!!!! I just feel that he is only thinking about how tired he is! I cant talk to him because I know he will say that he goes to work, I dont, or that if I get depressed again (suffered badly before pregnant0 I wont be able to cope, so that makes me a feel like a failure!!! I just feel trapped, emotional, lonely, but then guilty that I feel like this as he is the one working!!!! Am I being unfair???